Ladies, Enjoy It. Don’t ‘Perform’ It.



It’s not just fashion and beauty standards that women seem to be having trouble keeping up with; standards of something which is natural and a human instinct has unfortunately been added to a standard category. But when it comes to s3x, ladies, enjoy it. Don’t ‘perform’ it. Media messages tend to continuously highlight how s3x can be ‘performed’ better than ever to women through TV series, movies, books, and magazines.
Distressed about what new techniques to put into play to raise the bedroom temperature, women forget that core essence of s3x; for both their partner and themselves to enjoy it. If the focus remains on your ‘performance’, s3x would become a chore rather than a source of pleasure; eventually leading to the aftermath of worry if your ‘performance’ was good enough for your partner. To follow and focus on your basic instincts would not only satisfy your s3xual needs but would also allow you to bond with your partner while ‘doing the deed’.
1. Eternal Youth:
The Royal Edinburgh Hospital in Scotland state that individuals in emotionally stable and committed relationships that were enjoying s3x at least four times a week appeared to be seven to twelve years younger than their actual age! Scientifically, testosterone and estrogen hormones released during s3x make the body look younger. Specifically for women, it keeps our skin soft and supple with hair that shines!



2. Casts depression away:
Now we all know orgasms are the best thing, ever. But there’s a scientific reason for its awesomeness too; orgasms boost serotonin, endorphins, and opioids that make the chemicals in our brain sing with joy, literally! Ladies, that is your key reminder to not focus on your ‘performance’ of s3x, but rather focus on enjoying the ‘deed’.
3. Regulates the monthly monster:
It’s an age-old dilemma when the raging period monster isn’t on time. Columbia and Stanford’s endocrinologists state that women who have s3x at least once a week, their menstrual cycle is regularized in comparison to women who are not s3xually active.
4. Reconnecting with our inner Sleeping Beauty:
Been missing out on that much needed beauty-sleep? The answer is s3x. The Journal of Women's health states that the hormone production during intercourse releases euphoric oxytocin and decreases the production of the stress hormone cortisol. This process causes your body to shift into a relaxed mode that leads to a sound sleep.
5. Boosts your sass:
In a study done by Medical Press it was scientifically proven that women who get vaginal orgasms experience positive energy, sensuality, and freedom. What does that teach us, ladies? When we enjoy s3x instead of performing it we get orgasms, when we get orgasms there’s a certain spunk that elevates our sass!



6. S3x trumps money:
Ladies, we’re already hustling when it comes to making money, we shouldn’t have to worry about our ‘performance’ in the bedroom too. The National Bureau Of Economic Research  states that s3x makes people happier than money, so focus on enjoying your time ‘doing the deed’, you deserve it!

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