8 Tips On How To Make Love And Pleasing Your Partner

Tips on how to make love and getting into the groove of it

The meaning of making love

There is a difference between having s3x and making love, that's no big secret right? If you are not aware of the differences then, maybe, you haven't experienced it for yourself or you're just not sure. They're very different acts. S3x is instinctive, biomechanical, everybody knows how to do it. Love making could be considered (and should) an art; it's not goal oriented, it's slow, sensual and most important you have to have a connection with your partner. It involves emotions and romance.

So, what does it mean to make love? The act of lovemaking has a different motivation than just having s3x. The primary motivation for making love is to connect at an emotional level with your partner. It's a complex expression of love. It's not just about satisfying or exploring the body. Love making gives s3x depth, it encourages both partners to use minds, souls, and body to get to each other's heart.

Lovemaking allows couples a different kind of communication (dirty talking still happens), it gives them the ability to be more open with each other, it involves loving words that come from the heart. Also, vulnerability during and after making love is at the highest point. Making love means that both you and your partner are fully present that whole time, there's no room for wandering.

Love making begins much before intercourse and ends much after. It's not just about taking your clothes off and romping on the sheets, it involves emotions and feelings.

8 Tips on How to make love

Since the art of making love involves more than just s3x, you need to do it right. Maybe you or he needs some direction to really show each other how you feel through s3x, we'd like to help you. Here are 8 tips that are going to help you make the experience memorable for both of you. 

1. Foreplay is important

Remember that love making starts before the s3x part, so don't discount the foreplay phase. Women, especially find this more pleasurable. Foreplay is the best way to get your partner ready for what comes later and it's an awesome way to build anticipation. Foreplay give your partner's body time to prepare to have more pleasurable and less painful intercourse.

So don't skip this part of lovemaking and take your time to enjoy it.

2. Set the right tone

Before anything happens, you need to feel comfortable (not just on the place is going to happen), you need to be sure (especially if this is your first time) that what's about to happen is what you want. That being said, the ambiance should be appropriate or conducive to lovemaking.

Guys, jokes, and silliness may not be what your woman needs, she'll need a romantic atmosphere where she can feel special and cherished and safe. Romantic details are welcome too and can set the right mood, like some slow and s3xy music, dim lights (maybe some candles) and girls... get yoursevels some s3xy lingerie.

3. Pick the right location

It's not necessary to go and book a room in a hotel, although... Guys, if you want to really impress her, it could be a good idea. It could be a better idea to create a romantic space in your home, it's more personal, don't you think? Now, inside your home, you get to be creative in deciding which place is the most romantic to make love.

If it's your bedroom, then go ahead and set the mood there. If you have a house with a fireplace and you're in the middle of winter, you can throw a blanket in front of it, get some wine and you'll have the perfect setting for a romantic and hot evening.

Or maybe you both prefer the outside, you can pick a starry night and throw a blanket and some pillows on the backyard and have a very special night enjoying each other.

4. Pick positions so intimacy can be achieved

Making love requires that you two learn to connect with each other. You should connect on as many levels as possible, emotionally, spiritually and of course, physically. To achieve intimacy your bodies need to be in contact as much as possible and it's better if you're face-to-face.

For example, missionary and spooning positions allow your bodies full contact, therefore, they are the two best positions recommended for making love. Take it one step further and besides laying on top of each other or beside each other, holds hands interlocking your fingers and hug each other. that's how you achieve intimacy.

5. Always kiss each other

Kissing is a big part of making love, it's a great way to communicate with each other. There' are all kinds of kissing, and you can use them all while lovemaking. You can kiss with intensity and passion but also with tenderness. that's the perfect combination.

While kissing, hold hands or embrace each other, bury your head in each other's neck, always stay in contact while kissing, that speaks of how much care.

6. Don't be selfish

Making love is about connecting and feelings, it's about trying to please your partner and in doing that you achieve pleasure too. Don't be selfish and give all you have so your partner feels special and pampered and loved. That should be your priority the whole time, we assure you that by not being selfish, you're going to be reciprocated and the experience is going to be memorable for both of you.

7. Have fun

Making love should be emotional and profound and lovely, but it should be fun too, especially when you get to the s3x part). That's also part of the intimacy, you should be able to enjoy it and have some laughs together.

8. Tell each other how you feel and cuddle afterward

It could prove challenging, (especially for the guys), to tell you how you make him feel during s3x, but it can make a big difference if he says something like "You make me so happy" while he's rocking your world. You should express to him too, how he's making you feel, what you like. This communication will help you connect more deeply.

And don't forget to cuddle after, remember that lovemaking begins before s3x and ends much much later. Cuddling after is a way of extending the intimacy.