7 things women hate while making love




01/10 What men should not do while having s3x


When it comes to s3x, everyone has their likes and dislikes. While some might prefer prolonged foreplay before they actually make love, others might just want to get into the act and wrap it up quickly. Interestingly, a popular s3x toy company in the UK conducted a survey named Happiness Study 2019 to find out ‘more about what intimate happiness actually look like to different genders, ages, and intimacy.’ And the researchers of the study have made some interesting observations.

02/10 Only seven out of ten women orgasm during s3x


According to the findings of the study, while nine out of ten men orgasm during s3x but only seven out of ten women reach the climax while making love. To arrive at this conclusion, the researchers have asked 3,000 people across the UK, US and Australia to tell them about how important a intimacy happy life is for overall happiness and various information related to their s3x life.

03/10What women don't want

Almost 30 per cent of female participants of the study reported that they hate feeling self-conscious during the act and for men their biggest turn-off is when s3x gets over too soon. As per the study, other things women dislike while having s3x include not having enough foreplay, not getting an orgasm and being interrupted. So, let’s look at a few things which can make s3x a total bummer for women.

04/10​Not having enough foreplay


Not having enough foreplay before getting naughty between the sheets can be a big disappointment for most women. Foreplay is like an appetizer served before the main course. It’s really important to invest some time and energy in foreplay to make s3x a pleasurable act for her.

05/10Making her self conscious

Most people feel self-conscious about their bodies for many reasons. A woman might not be very confident about her body after childbirth or she might be a little bloated just before her period arrives and may not very comfortable about how she looks. And trust us when we tell you this—no woman would like to have s3x with a man who makes her self-conscious. We are not asking you to give her compliments while having s3x because it’s easy to catch a lie, remember. All you need to do is make her feel comfortable and love her for all her imperfections.

06/10The narcissist


If you are one of those men who boast of their intimate prowess, you need to change that habit immediately. No one, especially a woman, is interested in knowing how good you are in bed or how many intimate exploits you had in the past. Intimate narcissism is a big turn off for most women.

07/10​Repeatedly asking about her orgasm


This is perhaps one of the biggest disappointments. With so many mysteries surrounding female orgasm and the innumerable tips flooding the Internet, we can understand a man’s curiosity to know if his lover has reached a climax or not. But repeatedly asking a woman if she had an orgasm or not, is definitely something men should avoid while having s3x.

08/10Drilling for the G-spot


A lot of men treat a woman’s vagina like an oil field and drills like his life depends on it to find the elusive G-spot! That’s the worst thing a man can do during s3x. How deep a woman wants to feel her man inside her is a totally personal choice. Do don’t follow some free advice from the Internet and try to impress her with some uncomfortable deep cave exploits.

09/10​Treating her body like an unexplored land


The last thing a woman wants her man to do is to treat her body like an unexplored land. So, if you are an explorer, you need to use your skills elsewhere and not in the bed.

10/10​Imitating what you see in porn

For most people porn is their first source of information about s3x. But not everything you see on the screen is applicable in real life. If you constantly compare your s3x life with the intimate romp those enviable actors in porn films engage in, you are not only preparing yourself for a big disappointment but your lady love as well.

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