15 Things To Expect For A Beginner

S3x parties are some of the most mind-blowing experiences that anyone can have. So, if you are planning to be a first timer, here are some tips:

What s3x party experiences are all about

S3x parties are just as the name suggests, meaning it’s a party where people go to either watch or engage in s3x. More often than not, the participants are either attending the parties to satisfy a s3xual curiosity or take part in one. As a beginner, there are certain things you ought to know about the whole s3x parties/killing kitten parties experience:

1. Always stay safe at s3x parties

It is a s3x party for crying out loud! So, don’t expect to go and just sit there holding hands and singing kumbaya or something. People are definitely going to get drunk, have a nice time which includes lots of steamy s3x. And now that we know what this is all about, we shouldn’t use that as an excuse for not preparing ourselves beforehand. Make sure that you have protection at all times just in case you want to “live a little”. If it’s a s3x party that has a lot of strangers in it, always make sure that you have a couple of friends that will always have your back no matter what. That way, even if you get a little too drunk, you can always be in safe hands. And since all of you are planning on getting drunk and having a good time, having a cab on speed dial should be a priority. So, before you get down to that steamy orgy or group s3x (for those of us who like keeping things direct), then make sure you have taken care of your safety first.

2. Look good in a s3x party

Inasmuch as everyone in a s3x party wants to experience something out of this world, it is very important to note that looking good is what is going to get you laid. So, it wouldn’t hurt if you take some time and investing in some hot lingerie or boxers. Smelling good at a s3x party is also important because you don’t want to zero down on your crush and say hi only for your breath to choke him/her to death. Okay, maybe not to death but you get my drift. So, making sure that your oral hygiene is amazing and most importantly, ensuring that you invest in some cologne so that you are killing the competition and hooking up with some amazing people instead of settling. Shave that kitten if you are a girl and the same goes to guys. If not, at least keep your bush trimmed and well-kept, though it is always a brilliant idea to just shave clean if at all you want is the s3x to be remarkable.

3. Research before you experience a s3x party

Inasmuch as it is obvious that people attend s3x parties to have s3x, you also need to do your own research, especially if it is your very first time. Thankfully, there is the internet and you don’t have to look the word orgy up in a dictionary and wonder what the hell it means anymore. You can also carry out a little bit on different kinds of s3xual play, s3x positions and everything about practicing safe s3x because, as we earlier stated, it is important to always keep safety in as much as we all want to have fun. And the s3x aside, you can also research on how to stay as cool and as respectful as possible during these parties because people just want to have fun and not get disrespected. Bottom-line, there is a lot of things that need to be considered when talking about a s3x party and that means you need to carry out a lot of research before doing anything drastic.

4. Get to understand the rules

You also need to understand that s3x parties come with their fair share of rules. There are different kinds of people who want different kinds of experiences. Some of these people are elites, celebrities, power couples and so forth. So, you need to understand that this is an exclusive and very secretive s3x party. That said, you need to not only be comfortable but also make sure that you put on a mask or something close to that so that your anonymity is intact. Also, learn to always show to be s3xually attractive through your body language and if you keep doing that, everything will most certainly work out to your advantage. Also, if you take your time to fully understand the rules and what is expected of you, then the entire experience will most certainly be worth it.

5. Open-mindedness is key for any s3xual experience

If you are new to these, especially when it comes to killing kitten parties, you will get the chance to experience quite a number of things that you haven’t encountered before. That said, it is very important for you to be as open-minded as possible and you will have the time of your life. So instead of acting all cagey and out of place, try being a little open-minded and your s3xual experience will most certainly increase. And if you try out something and it doesn’t appeal to you, then it would be a good lesson never to try it out again. That said, a little bit of open-mindedness isn’t going to be a very bad idea at the end of the day. And for that matter, you need to ensure that you are doing all in your power to also research and get to know a thing or two about s3xual orientations and it will be less awkward during the s3x party.

6. Relax and enjoy s3x

I fully understand that when it comes to being intimate with people you haven’t met before, it can get a little bit awkward. So, the best thing for you to do before engaging in any s3x or intimacy is to learn the art of relaxing. Taking a couple deep breaths before getting into the s3x party looking great in your boxers or lingerie will be a good start. Also, you can learn how to be flirtatious and as said above, open-minded and you will get to relax when you realize that your mayor isn’t as intimidating as he looked during the campaign trail. He isn’t trying to take you down because you aren’t an opponent or anything of that sort. Ha-ha, I am just kidding. Other people might want to have an orgy or any other kinds of kinky s3x. If you aren’t comfortable, just politely decline. And if you are okay with it, then do it as long as there is protection involved then you have nothing to worry about.

7. You have options

Attending a s3x party doesn’t mean that you have to actually have s3x. If you aren’t comfortable with getting intimate with anyone, you can just join the spectator bandwagon and still have the time of your life. The catch right here is making sure that you are looking hot and showing some skin because, well, it is a s3x party and not a skating tournament in Alaska where you have to wear a ton of woolen jackets so as to be warm. Be nice to people and smile a little since you aren’t contributing to the pleasure, you can at least contribute to making the aura a little friendlier and hotter. Again, the killing kittens or s3x parties aren’t all about s3x. So, the next time you get an invite and aren’t in the mood of having s3x, you can still go and just lighten up the place. Besides, there is no effort in watching others having s3x now is there?

8. There are boundaries in s3x parties

Remember when we talked about polite declining an invite if you aren’t into someone or a fetish? Well, that applies perfectly well at this point. For instance, if you happen to be straight and you are cordially invited to take part in a gay orgy at a s3x party, a simple “no, thanks” would suffice. You don’t need to stress yourself out with explaining because everyone in there understands the rules, which is why it is important for the rookies to research all about the rules. You don’t have to end up doing something s3xual and be uncomfortable. S3x parties are supposed to be fun and that is exactly why the rules are there to make sure that you are in a position to enjoy yourself without having to worry way too much about hurting people’s feelings by politely rejecting their advances – operative word being “politely”.

9. Always mingle in s3x parties

For the umpteenth time, s3x parties are about having fun, drinking a little and making lifetime experiences. So apart from relaxing and having some good s3x, or just watching, you can also use the s3x parties as a place to make good friends. There is always a very interesting crowd of people in s3x parties who are always up for trying new things which makes them a tad interesting to be around. It is therefore very important for you to not only enjoy the s3x, s3xual experience but also use that platform to talk to people. You might be surprised when your next connect or employment finds you in some parties or any other s3x party because as mentioned earlier, there are plenty of influential people in there trying to experiment s3x parties and just have a good time.

10. S3x parties are an interesting experience

Ever wondered why the porn/s3x industry is a billion-dollar business? It is because they are very interesting to watch. The same happens in s3x parties where the experience, especially to open-minded first-timers, is often described as a mind-blowing s3xual experience.

Conclusion

Life is all about experimenting different things and a s3x party can be a very amazing place to start. As long as you are a confident person who isn’t afraid of exploring s3xually, then you can find s3x parties very interesting to attend. As long as you know your limits, look good in your undergarments and needless to say, understand and respect other people attending such parties, then you can end up enjoying a lot. Always remember that your safety comes first. So always have your protection with you at all times and you won’t live to regret it. But if you happen to try it out and it doesn’t seem to work out for you, then don’t sweat it. But the most important thing is the experience. There are plenty of other things that you learn about s3x parties and that is why carrying out your own research is very crucial and important.