How do I deflower a girl without much pain



Some people believe that you’re not a virgin if your hymen is stretched open. But having a hymen and being a virgin are not the same thing.
Some people are born with hymens that are naturally open. And many other activities besides s3x can stretch your hymen. So you can’t tell if someone has had s3x by the way their hymen looks or feels.And there are other ways that a hymen can be stretched open: riding a bike, doing sports, or putting something in your vagina (like a tampon, finger, or s3x toy). Once your hymen is stretched open, it can’t grow back. it is really pain for ladies in their first time s3x ,so i recommend two steps which can help to deflower and make her to enjoy it as well ,because a s3x is in which the partners enjoyed that what differs it from “Rape”

step 1

I would add that using your fingers to penetrate her first can make the process much easier. It also lets you know when she is wet enough to have intercourse.
And some women *won’t* get wet enough, for a variety of reasons. So it is good to have some high-quality all-natural water-based lube on hand.
Start with one finger, explore her vagina, see if you can find the G-spot, a very sensitive and pleasurable area for some women—and nothing special for others. You can use the one finger to stretch her out gently. Then go to two fingers, same process—slowly, slowly, slowly. Then three fingers, with one tucked under the other two, which will be about the same diameter as a penis. By the time she is comfortable with three fingers, she should be able to take the penis without significant discomfort.
If you go into this without the expectation of intercourse the first night, just focusing on the pleasure you can give each other, you may create a kind of intimacy between you that can lay the basis for a long and delightful s3xual relationship. *Probably* you would wind up having intercourse the first night, but not being “goal-oriented” is almost always a plus.
And each woman is different, so be prepared to take your cues from her. All this talk of going slow, being gentle, etc., may be irrelevant if she turns into a s3xual tiger and wants you *NOW*. All these ways of responding are perfectly normal, and all can be the start of a wonderful relationship, if there is mutual respect, patience, tolerance, step-by-step consent, and *lack of judgment*. There is no wrong way to have s3x, there is no wrong attitude about s3x, as long as it is mutually consensual.
A woman needs time to warm up and get ‘wet’ it won’t just happen because you’ve got down to it!
She will be very nervous and this can make it more painful and tense for penetration.
I’ve literally just wrote an answer a couple of mins ago about how to bring a woman to orgasm. I think that this could be good advice for you to think about as it could help to relax her.

STEP 2

Mind you that it is her first time, she may not be into all of this. But my advice would be to start off with a massage. Get her in the relaxed state. She will be very sensitive if she’s not been with a man before so everything will be scary but exciting.
The more wet and turned on she is, the easier it will be to have s3x. The body prepares for s3xual intercourse by making lubricant but without this, it can hurt whether it’s the first time or not.
Keep asking her how she feels, what feels good etc and find out what she likes.
When she’s sufficiently turned on, gently gently enter her, it will hurt a little bit if she has a hymen but keep checking that she’s okay and go very slowly.
               

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